If you are unable to have children you should not feel like it is the end of happiness. You might have gone for counseling at some point and thought you were comfortable with it. You get reminded of your situation when you have to attend functions where most people turn up with their children.

For really inspirational and uplifting words on how you can cope with your situation you could look up any of these: encouragement quotes words of encouragement scriptures for encouragement

the way forward out of any situation no matter how hopeless it may seem is to have a positive attitude. It should be something that you can talk about freely and there is no reason why should blame yourself really. So stop beating yourself about it and using it as yard stick to measure and judge yourself by.

Probably you might have gotten to a point where you were able to accept it but your spouse has never really gotten used to the idea that he cant have children with you and that’s what’s probably troubling you the most. The situation calls for understanding from both parties and you should be willing to see each other’s points of view.

Having been in the same situation myself I will tell you that this is one situation that has no clearly defined way of being dealt with. It calls for patience and understanding by both you and your spouse. If you are ever going to talk about this subject try avoiding the house set up or environment. Try somewhere where the both of you will be able to relax and feel at ease.

There are sites that you can log onto as often as you like and you will always find an encouraging word there whenever you feeling low. These sites proved to be a source of encouragement for me and helped me move on with my life.

 

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